Friday, June 3, 2011

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10 Steps to Happily Ever After

Do you know what all happy and healthy marriages have in common? In each are two people committed to doing everything others happy. You can find a man who cultivates his wife and put needs before their own, and find a wife who respects and trusts husband. We live in a very selfish. Pop-psychology messages throughout the media encourages us to love ourselves, not quite ourselves, and generally please yourself first. If you really want a happy marriage, do not buy into that kind of self-centered thinking.

Instead, try these 10 skills and experience happiness, peace and tranquility of a healthy marriage.

1. Take time to another. It's so easy in our hyper-busy modern lifestyles to forget to allocate time to enjoy each other company. Start a weekly tradition of setting a date for you two do something together you both enjoy. Keep it simple. Take a Nice walk together. Sip coffee together in a comfortable. Talk the other, remember, and know more.

2. Take time to another. Give each other space and time Working on hobbies and personal interests. When you have an interesting project to work on, you will feel more satisfied and you will be more interesting person.

3. Making small romantic gestures. Remember to fill your spouse. Leave a note of love to find them once in a while. Partying date of your first met.Send flowers for no reason. You should continues to make bank deposits only your spouse emotional account. The investment is incredible.

4. Fight fair. Do not argue in front of other people. Not bad at all or other families. Do not threaten to resign, and should never be bed angry. That little things go, and are not a big deal any dispute. Before the case, I think, is this really matter in the long run?

5. Take interest in what interests your spouse. View your favorites shows with them. Read your favorite book, so you can talk with. Encourage them to develop their skills.

6. Listen to your spouse. Husbands, remember that women need to express their feelings. Be a good sport and just listen. Do not interrupt, or distraction. Empathize with her. Let him know that you can relate to feelings. Ladies, please remember that the kind of conversation maybe your husband does not come naturally to most men. Just be patient. It is not a good idea to "terminate" the right to practice when he gets home from work.

7. Accept your spouse for who they are. Practice total acceptance. Do not hold your spouse to your expectations, you will succeed in construction of resentment.

8. Express your commitment. A little 'ways can and must be reformed their vows to each other several times. Your husband will feel comfortable and secure knowing that you are truly committed to marriage. near real only occurs when all the doubts and insecurity is replaced by trust in the relationship. Let your wife knowyou really are in it "till death do us part."

9. Confidence in each other. Not suspected. Do not snoop through each other goods. Contributes to the trust, to be honest partner in all things. Do not keep secrets from each other, not even children.

10. Make it your aim to be the best friend of your spouse. Thanks spouse for who they are. Relax and have fun together. If practice the steps above, you will become your better spouse, friend of the ultimate relationship in marriage.
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